“Not what we have, but what we enjoy constitutes our abundance.” Epicurus wrote those words over two thousand years ago, and they still cut right to the heart of what most of us get wrong about living well. We chase more. More money, more accomplishments, more stuff. Yet the women who radiate genuine fullness are […]
Perspectives for the Modern Woman
Real talk on love, life, career, wellness & becoming who you're meant to be
I Am a Survivor I want to get real with you for a moment. I was a victim of sexual and emotional abuse as a child, and that experience left deep scars that shaped my health for nearly two decades. Severe anxiety, panic attacks, an autoimmune thyroid disease, antidepressant withdrawal, adrenal fatigue, and chronic spinal […]
There is a kind of frustration that does not come from outside circumstances. It lives deeper than that. It sits in the space between who you are performing to be and who you actually are. You feel it when you wake up restless for no obvious reason. You feel it when you scroll through someone […]
Mindfulness gets thrown around a lot these days. You hear it in wellness podcasts, workplace seminars, and even cereal commercials. But if you strip away the marketing gloss, what remains is something genuinely worth your attention: the skill of being fully present in your own life. Not half-present while scrolling your phone. Not sort-of-present while […]
I was sitting cross-legged on my bathroom floor at 11 PM on a Tuesday, mascara running down my face (not the waterproof kind, because apparently I never learn), rereading a text thread for the fifteenth time. He had canceled on me again. Third time that month. And instead of being angry, I was doing that […]
There is a conversation most of us avoid having, even with ourselves. It lives in the space between what we want in bed and what we actually ask for. It hides in the quiet resentment after another night of going through the motions. It whispers when we scroll past something that stirs us and immediately […]
Every December, the spending machine kicks into high gear. Couples exchange luxury gifts, plan romantic getaways, and split the cost of matching pajamas for holiday photo shoots. Meanwhile, the average American spends over $900 on holiday gifts alone, according to the National Retail Federation. When you’re single, the pressure to participate in this spending frenzy […]
Here is the truth that nobody talks about during the holiday season: some of the most successful, purpose-driven women you admire built the foundations of their biggest achievements during seasons when they were unattached. Not because being single is some kind of superpower on its own, but because they chose to channel their energy into […]
Every December, the same script plays out. Couples hold hands at tree lightings. Family holiday cards arrive featuring matching pajamas and golden retrievers. Your group chat fills with stories about “our tradition” that always seems to involve someone’s significant other. And if you’re the single one in your friend group or family, it can start […]
Some of us were simply not designed to spring out of bed at sunrise with a smile. If you have ever hit snooze five times, negotiated with yourself for “just five more minutes,” or wondered why morning people seem to exist in an entirely different dimension, you are not alone. The truth is, you do […]
I’ll never forget the holiday party where I stood in the corner holding a glass of cheap champagne, watching couple after couple slow dance to Michael Buble, and thinking, “Well, this is just fantastic.” My friend Sarah nudged me and whispered, “Stop looking at them like that. You look like you’re plotting something.” She wasn’t […]
The holidays have a way of making single women hyper-aware of one particular absence: physical closeness. It’s not just the couple photos or the engagement rings lighting up your feed. It’s the arm around someone’s waist at the holiday market. The slow dance at a friend’s party. The quiet, unspoken promise of going home together […]